Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Is Being Blunt Emotional Abuse?


I'm so blunt. I will say a very "inappropriate" thing. I get a rush from saying it though. Right before I say it I get a surge of an angry energy that must burst. It's like this burst of my father coming out to laugh at them all for even being in my presence.

I don't regret it after I say it. It's more of a smugness still coming from my father in me. 

If I think about why he does it. I would guess it gives him a sense if power over them. They can't get away. For that sentence they are his to control by controlling what they hear. Not caring if it's offensive. Maybe even hoping it's offensive. To get a "rise". It's a form of force upon another person. Do you think it is emotional abuse?